Abby and Rebecca Powell haven't seen each other since a traumatic event in their youth ripped them apart.Reunited for the first time in over a decade, the sisters take a trip to spread their mother's ashes at a secluded lake.I think back to the advice my dad once gave my sisters and me when he snuck us onto the "premium members only" tennis courts at this fancy resort at the beach.While we played, security goons watched closely, and my dad could tell that we were nervous: "Just act like you are supposed to be here, and they won't ask any questions." Sure enough, it worked. Once I've made it into bed with a girl, no way I'm going to let my stupid mouth wreck things.
Commitment means I've found my soul mate, that I am completely secure with myself, and that there should be no going back. It's peaceful to lie in someone's arms in the dark with great music or even the low buzz of the TV (although that tends to distract me) in the background.Holding someone close in bed also makes you feel very secure with one another and the relationship. Men are taught that confidence solves just about anything.I'm so far behind, I can't imagine being asked to meet on Sunday for brunch by a girl I've dated for a month, much less having a child or being married. But are they as obsessed with sports like guys are? And I do find myself telling my sisters about University of Virginia and Boston College teams — where they went to school. I once tried this, but the entire time I was trying to contort my body so that I could get everything inserted correctly.We want to bail the morning after a one-night stand. I'm foul when I'm hung over, so I am sure others are too. Do everything you can to get home and fester in your own bed. Give each other a hug, wish each other well, don't say anything about calling, and don't believe him when he mutters that he will call you. There is no reason women wouldn't understand or know sports like guys do if they were as obsessed. That "up against the wall" variation is tougher than it sounds.